Feeling down.
I honestly do not know why I have felt so down over the last few days. I guess we are all just in a hard place right now and I just don’t know what to do. To be honest, my family and I are struggling. Every day it seems like we have to find a way around one problem or another. I guess I am just needing support, but others don’t tend to care as much when they are in the same boat.I guess it has to be blamed on the economy, there are not enough jobs around here. Even for the educated people. WTF is up with that? I wish there was an automatic switch we could all flick to fix everything. Wouldn’t that be great? I am absolutely sick of people wasting what they have and looking down on the people that are struggling. This rant has been a long time coming and I do not know how nice I am going to be… so here it goes.
You may not like what me and my husband do with our money… but in my honest opinion, it is better than what you do with your money. I do what I feel is best for my family, and I am sorry you don’t see that. We do not make $80,000 a year and have lumps of money sitting around everywhere to save. We have a lot of things coming up and you know what? We are dealing with it. Mind your own damn business.
It seems like my life has always been this way, people LOVE to get into my business and I am honestly sick and tired of it. Ever since I was young there has always been somebody telling me what I should be doing. Why can people not see that I am an adult now? I don’t need your guidance. And if I do decide I need your advice, then I will come to you and ask you, there is no need for you to be constantly butting in on my business. I am very opinionated, but have always held it inside. And I am sick of it. I do not want to be bummed all the time for not speaking me mind.
I am my own person, with my own mind, and the perfectly capable ability to live my own life and to make my own decisions.
So how about this.. you can support me, or leave me the fuck alone.
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(((HUGS))) Ignore the drama and it will go away. Sending positive thoughts your way!
Kas
I so know what you are going through, but to be honest the economy has not touched my family. Life in general is a bitch when you do not make the big bucks. My husband makes good money dont get me wrong, but whats good money to me is nothing to others. We are just above poverty to be honest, but we do fine. Other then something coming up and putting us in a jam for the next 2 years or so but I love our new car.
I have a few people that likes to speak to me like I am a child. How is this one “Have you paid this (insert bill name here) yet” I have been paying my bills on my own now since 17 I am 30 so hrm do I need to be told this or that bill needs paid. NOPE, I am with you on this one. I think certain people are getting a clue to leave me the fuck alone. Hope your feeling better hun.
I am sorry for whatever you are going through and I hope things start to look up soon.
I really hope things start looking up for you soon. No one has the right to judge anyone else biznass
I know how you feel. I have a bachelors in Education and was nominated for Teacher of the Year yet I can’t get a job. It’s a sad state we’re in right now!
It’s a stressful time boo, no matter how “well off” anyone is. I am sorry you are feeling the pressure so harshly – makes it hard for anyone to enjoy this time of year. Remember you are an adult, and you just keep doing what is best for you and your family – chances are those with their “opinions” are projecting their OWN crap and stress onto you. It isnt fair, but know that is is THEIR problem, not yours. YOU are doing great. Keep it up mama.
So tell me more about whats going on? What did I do now?! lol JK
Oh mom it’s not you. I love you!
I have been in the tough place before and while we are not much higher we can feed our family and those that come and visit because they are down on their luck as well. I agree advice is not always useful and the only advice I could give is hold your head up and I pray that all will work out for you. I am new here and I continue to find more and more blogs that I just love. I will be back to visit so I have signed up to follow to help me remember
Bug Hugs !
been there & not only with money…
One thing we still have left ( even with $$ short in hand) is the RIGHT to speak our mind….
hopefully that and many other rights our forefathers saw fit to make sure we get & keep, is the right of free speech and the pursuit of personal happiness ( not the guarantee, but free to search & acquire it)
hang in there girl!
I understand. I have been there. I finally started to tell people they need to mind their business. Hang in there chin up and hugs.
You can’t spend other people’s money and you have to mind your business when it comes to that as well. I agree with you.
Good for you Nina, you tell them. People seriously need to learn how to mind there own business i couldn’t agree with you more. I always believe people should clean their own doorsteps before trying to clean someone else. Hope you feel better now that you let it out.
It drives me crazy that people are always sticking their nose where it doesn’t belong. I say you know what’s best for your family, and you’re doing what you can, so kudos to you. I do hope things get easier for you though. Sending hugs your way.